Well, hubby and I haven't made it 65 years yet, but we are celebrating 24 years today. And I would say we ascribe to this philosophy. I know that is not always possible, when one partner isn't willing to fix it. But I also know just about any issue is fixable with work, lots of it. I have seen many marriages on the brink survive and thrive. My anniversary wish (You get one of those, right?) is that you take time today to invest in and work on your marriage! Off to go explore Seattle with the love of my life and a couple of our blessings!